Mars:
Interesting name! Whether you eventually choose something else, at least for the present, this one is unique. To me, in the broader sense, as a group we are unique. While there are similarities in our stories and our paths, each of us is different.
In case you have not discovered it yet, we have a forum and a chatroom for trans men. That’s where you will likely find most of the trans men, although some do post in other places.
When you have time, please complete your Profile page. It is important as it will always be readily available and you can update it at any time. It helps other members understand your situation better. As more and more new threads are created, any given thread will sink to the bottom sooner or later. But, the Profile page will always be there.
Our database of members is searchable so you can look for other members in Holland and other nearby places. Click on Social in the menu and then Member Directory.