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Stephanie,

I didn’t tell my wife what I was doing for at least a month after I started seeing a psychologist.  I felt that her response would be to tell me NO!, your crazy, etc.  Which is kind of how she has dealt with me on many occasions.  I actually never told her, she discovered my transgender research on the computer.

She acted hurt that I didn’t trust her with this aspect of myself.  Maybe I lost an opportunity to start my journey with her at my side, maybe it was a way to control the eventual outcome.  My wife is some what distant from me now, and I don’t know if telling her early on would have made a difference; one thing about yesterday is that it is done & gone.

Good luck in how you decide how t approach this.  One or two visits to a psychologist will help you find a path to travel, a first few steps in some direction.

Love

Lukcia

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