I can relate!
I am not nearly so tall but very stocky, fat and muscular and I’m very self-conscious about how deep my voice is.
I have no idea if I’ll ever be remotely passable but coming out for me changed my life profoundly. Accepting and loving myself and living an authentic life has given me back my future.
It may not make life easy but it can be very good!! Whatever you choose to do please be good to yourself!!!
Kim in Calgary