Congrats Jameson on your 100 days! That’s a big deal!
My gut tells me connecting with sober trans folks should be possible in any city with a large LGBTQ population. Near you Miami is probably your best bet.
As of a few years ago I knew of some meetings for sober trans folks in the Bay Area of California. I’ve also heard of some meetings in the New York City area. I would guess those meetings are virtual or hybrid now.
Also, AA has an LGBTQ online intergroup. One meeting explicitly welcomes anyone that identifies as female, including trans women. There are some other meetings where I think there’s a good chance you’d be able to connect with other trans folks. Here’s the link:
https://archive.aa-intergroup.org/directory_glbt.php
One day at a time….
Emily