March 22, 2023 at 4:37 am #136709
CC Coffey, for me, your relationship with Tiffani is the ideal (perfect) outcome with my wife. All I desire is her love and understanding, help and support when I’m in need. When I tell her: “I was born this way and didn’t get a choice” (love that quote), I want her unconditional love not blame or anger. Even though we’ve been married so long, this “newer me” or strong feminine side was always present but firmly hidden all these many years. I know this may take my wife time to digest and absorb. As she is struggling with Kathy, I am struggling to find my final true self. I cherish any small step my wife takes towards Kathy. I want us to be happy too. My wife’s encouragement may be far off for me, but I’m hopeful.
Kathy