First, you are of legal age and no one can withhold your personal information from you unless you have provided a legal signed document indicating such. Medical providers are obligated by law to only provide personal information about you to you, unless you have signed a legally signed directive by you indicating who can receive personal information.
tell your mother so. Your father will find out anyway sooner or later. Now, as far as the insurance goes, if she owns the policy, or the father does, they may be able to remove you from the policy by having the insurance company specifically removing you from the policy at their request.
Sorry to hear about your position. I will be thinking about this one for awhile.
hugs, Jillleanne
