Cyn, thanks for your reply. You know it’s funny, I’ve recently be working through a guidebook “You and Your Gender Identity” and in there it was brought up about mentors, cheerleaders etc and counselors. I am planning on calling the therapist I worked with about 10-15 years ago when I was trying to understand how certain events in childhood shaped me. He was helpful at the time. We almost got in to gender issues then, but I was still repressing. So I know if he can’t help me, he most surely can guide me in the right direction. I appreciate you and will reach out, let you know how it’s going.