Today I went out to the store wearing bra, panties, pantyhose, no socks, women’s jeans & sneakers, mascara, perfume & I had my finger nails polished a noticeable red, I was surprised, no one even gave me a second look. Are we getting all nervous for nothing ?
I’d say being nervous, but not acting nervous, is a defense mechanism that works to keeps us aware of situations and surroundings. The reality is that sometimes s+++ happens and hopefully we will not be caught by surprise.
That said, it does appear that often people are self-absorbed enough to not notice or notice but don’t wish to invest any effort for reacting.
Works for me…