Reply To: Shout out

[Vanessa Torres]

Hi Agam. Why don’t you tell us a little bit about your family as well as your wife’s family. I haven’t come out yet, but I have a plan on how I’m going to do it. Maybe my plan can help you or at least get you thinking of a way to come out. I’m younger, 33, and live with my girlfriend. We have a 3 year old daughter and I have a 8 year old boy from a previous relationship. My girlfriend has a very accepting family. I’m actually going this Friday to have lunch with her two sister in laws. I’m going to come out to them. My goal is to have them be my support and help me come out to my girlfriend. Maybe this helps you, maybe it doesn’t. Hopefully it can give you an idea of how to proceed. Just remember, you’re not alone. You have a great community here to help you through this process. Hope I was helpful.