It is something i have been fighting with for a while and it seems even more poignant this year and especially at christmas which makes thinking about it even harder.
To tell my family i want to transition from male to female without hurting them is impossible and guess there is no way of saying it softly.
Going to see a therapist/counsellor is looking more and more the way to move forward because it gives extra and impartial eyes on a life changing event.
The fact i have made the decision was not difficult, coming publicly is going to be hard and i always knew that.
I will definitely take your excellent response onboard and i am sure it will help me connect the dots so to speak.
Many Many Thanks
Have a very Happy Christmas and lets all have a better year in 2021.