Becoming Wendy

[RobbenWendy]

This not a specific memory, but it is the reonciliation i made after a few trials with my loved one, that if i every cheat or have an affair, that it be homosexual, her being the only woman i fantasize about it is my obligation to be true to her. You see when social networking first started we all thought we could play head games with the world,and with porn i had a sex life that was mildly deceptive. Since i came out to Alix,as Wendy with a female gender identity,and she has elected to refer to me as Wendy, I resist my marriage vows a lot less and since usually when there were others they were men. In reconciliation and consideration to her and the sanctity of my marriage that if there ever is anyone else it will be homosexual,and that she who is 18 years older than i am will know that i was chaste and she is the only female to satisfy my sexual libido

[𝓜𝒾𝓈𝓈 𝓒𝓁ℴℯ́ 💋💋]

Wendy, I have a differing opinion on what it means to be chaste.  But, I want to keep this in the vein in which I think you were going.   I say that it is great to see a couple work things out to mutually acceptable arrangements.  This is a key attribute for any partnership to survive and I applaud you for knowing who you are and being able to achieve a peace about how to conduct your life.

[RobbenWendy]

You should understand that a twenty five year commitment went through a lot of changes. I was born with half female chromosomes, it seems as to fully accept my own oath i would never be even a little promiscuous,but sometimes my wife enjoys having me with a partner. For now we are trying to keep it to that, her as the only woman, but maybe sharing our love with a male partner

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