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- June 7, 2019 at 5:43 am #34734Miriya ParisParticipant
What a load of horse poo. As I have just spent the last 20 minutes hiding in my room sobbing over emotions brought up, because I read a different girls post.
It is ok to cry? 😢 It is ok to be sad? 😔 It makes us human. I am human aren’t I?
- December 6, 2020 at 7:59 pm #91388DeeAnn HopingsAMBASSADOR
I assume that all who have replied to this thread were Assigned Male At Birth (AMAB). The significance of that is how we were raised.
We grew up in a world where we were treated as males and it also defined the expectations held out for us. One of those expectations was emotional distance. I can think of only a few situations where it was OK to express emotion: grief, when your child is born and when your daughter gets married. Being emotional was “allowed”.
However, as we discover this feminine aspect of our being, we realize that the rules no longer apply. It is OK to show emotion and in fact, expected. If we are not OK with that, it is probably because we haven’t let go of our prior conditioning…
- November 12, 2020 at 11:58 am #90564Lilly DFREE
After bottling up my emotions for 30+ years, (which resulted in constant anger) I was able to really let myself go, and have a body shaking cry after about a month on E. It was amazing, and crying has become a wonderful tool for releasing negative emotions, celebrating positive things, and sometimes just because. Even posting this made me leak a little.
- November 12, 2020 at 7:44 am #90560Jamie HarrisSILVER
Living as a male I botted up all of the emotions and it was not good for me. If I did cry I was intensely embarrassed.
As a female with no testosterone in me but with a female puberty level of Estrogen I cry all of the time. I cry when my trigger points are pushed. I can cry when I am happy and I cry when I am sad. Because I do not have the walls up anymore around my heart and soul. I am a better person now that the walls around my heart have been torn down. I consider it my right as a female to cry. It has nothing to do with any particular clothes I am wearing. I have always had a female heart and soul but now I am free to express it.
- November 12, 2020 at 5:11 am #90552Lucinda HawkinsFREE
tough question i chose no for the reason that we are all human no matter what we are or what color what ever. so if we dress like woman and act like one we are still human, so there would be no change. we all get treated the same way if you were male or female. but then some people treat people like not a human person at all so that is why i said no. but i could be wrong. but it was a tough question could of ask more info on who a human could be treated. like r u being treated more like a female when dressed up better then when you are dressed as a male.
- August 10, 2020 at 5:25 pm #87680Cindy ReborneSILVER
I am anxiously waiting for that exciting part of my transition to kick in. My doctor said it will happen ,so be prepared for a siesmic change. I have been a stone wall all through my male excistence. Now that I am going through my transition. I want to embrace my feminine life. I desperately want those emotions. In fact, I want to be far away from my rough persona of the past. I will be the most gentle woman I can be. With my HRT, every day is a sweet, step forward into a better future.
- August 10, 2020 at 4:44 pm #87679JosiePharaohFREE
Looking at how humanity has conducted itself over the past millennia, I’m not sure i want to be human any more. I certainly wasn’t treated as one for so many years i started to believe i wasn’t. one of the lowest points in my life. Never doubt you are human. We are closer to the image of God than those who would have us believe otherwise.
My true emotional self is what drives me. My work is an expression of this. I think it has made me a better person, so long as I am bringing light instead of darkness.
- June 7, 2020 at 11:37 am #84921
- June 22, 2019 at 3:30 pm #35071Izola KateFREE
If crying means I’m human then I certainly am. But I’ve also failed so many reCAPTCHA tests that I’m fairly sure I’m a robot too. Love you ladies….
- June 19, 2019 at 10:26 am #34997https://transgenderheaven.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/woman-b14-2.jpgAnonymous
I find it difficult to cry in public because I am to busy with loading and aiming a come-back to/at the butt head trying to make me cry. But when my P.H.D. informed me I would be a woman, I did single stream from both eyes, If that qualifies? I did feel awesome after my cry and a little more human, (if you will).. In writing this I guess I feel as though I should let things out more and curb the animositary responses I tend to vent due to my family’s past behavior causing my defensive response.
Miriya I have been meditating which causes me to think more before I speak. But crying is a tool I will try along with meditation and will let you know the ( if’s and or when”s ) girl.
- June 20, 2019 at 9:47 am #35025Miriya ParisFREE
Tia, emotion is the next step to emptyness in meditation. It will come when you are ready and if I may I will show you how.
- June 19, 2019 at 4:39 pm #35007Stephanie KennedySILVER
Hi ladies I cry when I am sad truly sad cannot help it. I have been conditioned to be a man so pretend I am not sad and turn my back while wiping away my years. I have testosterone being pumped through my brain on a daily basis . I am not that imotional due to the both It did not make me less sad. I really do not want to be so sad I would cry. That would be really sad.
- June 19, 2019 at 7:46 am #34994Meran BerwyckFREE
Who doesn’t like a good cry? I mean, letting go of your emotions that we often put up a wall to hide them. A good tear-jerker movie, a very happy moment, etc., why not let those tears flow. I read somewhere that when a man cries, it releases increased testosterone! Now, some are saying “Ewww! I don’t want that!” I don’t mind shedding a tear anymore, I’m on t-blockers. As long as my makeup holds up through the tears!
- June 15, 2019 at 12:17 pm #34883
- June 7, 2019 at 8:00 am #34744
I’m human. As if! I actually was arguing with a bi+ cis woman about trans mysogyny, oppression, all the money I’ve lost due to all the discriminations cisgender transphobes ($340,000 at last tally and counting) and at the end of it she actually said she didn’t think trans folx were human! What else would I be, seriously, the audacity! Omg, I hope this dumb assery of cisgender folx ENDS. Just stop already.
- June 14, 2019 at 1:56 am #34852Stephanie KennedySILVER
I have to smile. I use to think that being trans was like hearing from people that were abducted by aliens we all had similar story we all started recognizing it around same age we are from all over the world but I do think we are human. We are just special ❤️
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