Sexual census. Q:

Sexual census

Data discovery of preference and prevalence.

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  • I am TG and I like other TG girls
  • I am TG and i like straight men.
  • I am TG and I like both.
  • I am TG and I do not mind gay men. ( meaning they want reciprocation)
  • I am TG and I like cis woman.

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  • #90289
    Linda Brennan
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    I seem in the minority, So my question is? I consider myself Transgender. I am only attracted to straight men. This seems feasible to my mind, because the definition of Transgendered is feeling like the opposite sex you were born under.

    So if i am a woman inside…It would seem i would be attracted to straight sex like a man and a woman.

    However, it seems to me , most trans people like other trans girls. I am confused by this.

    No explanation needed, I mean I get it. you are attracted to what you are attracted to…But are you transgender if you are attracted to other tgs.

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    • #91328
      Sandy Wells
      Participant

      as to my sexual knowing i was a women it was to men it only felt natural

    • #91300
      Linda Brennan
      Participant

      FREE

      as a man growing p i loved woman to a level that was absurd… thing waas, i wasnt willing to put in the work to have sex hook up. etc. if it came my way ok.. later on i realized anatomicaly  although thimking they are the greatest creatures on earth…. Even when i would bang the hottest chic on the planet…i felt she got the better deal.,, male O ughhh, 4 seconds… whats all the hub bub, same as spanking i thought same result.

      as a grown person understanding my trans brain… what was missing was intimacy….i wanted to be her, not connect with her… she was the enemy, she had what i desired…to be female with a man.  of course being the brute i was, i faked caring, loving and all that happy horseshit. all the while … i wasn’t satisfied except for a dripping shrinking dick.  the harmony a woman must feel after being fucked good by a man.. was what was missing.. because? ( that’s why I am Trans,).. it never existed as a guy banging girls.  I could never reach that intimacy…. In my opinion… if you ever got close emotional as a man and woman with a girl… you are not trans…just 56 years of trying to figure shit out talking… what do you think… from the heart not. BS.. I hate my people and their embarrassing social bullshit.

    • #91203
      Mikayla Welch
      Participant

      FREE

      As DeeAnn stated, it just IS… sexual orientation and gender identity are two different things.  I am attracted to woman, but I have also found myself fantasizing about men… Whether this is true attraction (i.e. I am pansexual) or just a way to justify myself as a woman, not sure.  It could go either way until the rubber hits the road (i.e. I have sexual relations with a man).

      Good luck! and remember… a loving relationship is never built on gender… it is built on trust. be honest with your partner and be the best person that you can be and enjoy your time together!

      Mikayla

    • #91138
      Tina Toledo
      Participant

      FREE

      Sexual attraction is simple for me.  I feel that I am straight.  When I am in a dress, I am interested in men.  When I am wearing boxer briefs, I find women attractive.  Is that to simple or wrong?

      • #91301
        Linda Brennan
        Participant

        FREE

        read my above statement… so you bang the girl… felt good…. does it bring the same sunami as being in a dress with a man… it cant be equall. IMO.

        if it is thats pretty great…..sex with woman great… sex with man (emotionaly right) is for me 100X.

         

      • #91141
        DeeAnn Hopings
        Ambassador

        AMBASSADOR

        It isn’t This or That. It’s just an Is…

    • #91129
      DeeAnn Hopings
      Ambassador

      AMBASSADOR

      When I was living as a male I was never attracted to men, only women. When being intimate with a female I always projected myself into a female role, although I only have had one female that would cooperate and treat me as female during sex. After I transitioned I kept an open mind about my sexuality and finally at 8 months into HRT, I confirmed myself as only being interested in women. I chose trans women as the partner I would like to have because I think that it would be very hard for a lesbian female to accept a trans female as a partner. Not impossible, just hard. Rather than be lonely the rest of my life I would choose someone that would be accepting which would be another trans female

      I know lesbian identified trans women who have told me how difficult it is to find other women for relationships. I can think of various reasons, but I can’t say exactly what is going on.

      Historically my orientation has been bisexual, but as time goes on, it is becoming more and more lesbian. But I am married and I’m not looking for anything else. In part, I think the shift may be due to the acceptance that I feel from the lesbian community here. I like that and it was also quite unexpected…

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    • #91123
      Jemma Schumpert
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      FREE

      This issue has been a recurring one for me.  I always found it odd that I enjoyed meeting men for sex but never seeing them as “sexual” in public…until I started venturing out in public as Jemma.  Suddenly I was attracted to them and pleased when I got their attention.  Part of that is simply the joy of being recognized as a woman, no matter how transitory that might be.  Part of it is also because I now live almost exclusively as a woman in my head.

      Recently I accepted an invitation to meet a man for sex and misunderstood the role he wished me to fulfill.  For the first time I left an encounter full of self-loathing and confusion.  It took me several days to sort out all the conflicting questions and panic.  I now believe that I will never again be able to be the “man” in any sexual or romantic situation.  I also believe that my attraction and appreciation of both women and men is fairly equal, though clearly being with men as Jemma it is far easier to be the woman I long to fully become.

      Finally, I have realized that I would give up the possibility of ever having sex again to bring my external self in line with the woman buried inside me.  My need to be the woman I am is not based on sex.  In fact, sex was never the goal at all.  Identity is the goal.  Cherry pie is great with ice cream, but still fantastic alone.  It irritates that so many people in my life want to reduce me to a sexual category instead of an identity.  Ideally I see myself as a Pansexual-Transexual, but also see that I may eventually become an Asexual-Woman.

      • #91130
        DeeAnn Hopings
        Ambassador

        AMBASSADOR

        Jemma:

        I think a lot of what you said has to do with the lack of understanding and confusion in the general public. They THINK they know about us, but they really don’t. The stark proof of this is the often when a trans person comes out, the question is often “Are you gay?”.

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    • #91075
      Jamie Harris
      Participant

      FREE

      When I was living as a male I was never attracted to men, only women. When being intimate with a female I always projected myself into a female role, although I only have had one female that would cooperate and treat me as female during sex. After I transitioned I kept an open mind about my sexuality and finally at 8 months into HRT, I confirmed myself as only being interested in women. I chose trans women as the partner I would like to have because I think that it would be very hard for a lesbian female to accept a trans female as a partner. Not impossible, just hard. Rather than be lonely the rest of my life I would choose someone that would be accepting which would be another trans female

    • #90842
      Jackie Johnson
      Participant

      SILVER

      I am not sure how i would or should answer this. I have always been a Crossdresser my entire life, I have often wished i was a girl for most of life but that feeling would come an go. The urge/desire to be a woman in the past ten years became stronger and stronger, so at 61 i started HRT (6 months now). That said i always felt i am Bi sexual, as a man i experimanted and enjoyed sexual relations with men but they were not attracted to me? Even when dressed as a woman i was never really attracted to men but yet i enjoyed and wanted the sexual aspect of being with a man. I also loved to be with TGs, i think that was a way for me to think i wasnt really gay and still experiance the sexual aspect of a Man and woman and i believe i was envious of them.. I also enjoy being with women very much, i love my wife and enjoy our sexual aspects as well. I dont think i will ever fully transistion do to family friends and work, although since being on HRT i do feel mentally better and my body is starting to match my desire to be a woman.

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      • #91119
        Linda Brennan
        Participant

        FREE

        Also well thought out.. i like the personal aspect that you both use. thats really what im going for here. Not argumentative whos what definitions.. more …. what are your emotions and desires telling you.

        ty for sharing.

    • #90304
      CC Webb
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      This leaves out a number of possibilities. Asexual, Pansexual, Cis and TG women…

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    • #90302
      DeeAnn Hopings
      Ambassador

      AMBASSADOR

      The sexuality of trans people is as varied as that of cis people. From what I’ve observed on this forum, and others, is that I haven’t noticed a preponderance of any particular orientation. We are all over the place, it seems.

      There is an interesting thought that I have run across. The suggestion is that trans women are attracted to males as a way of looking for validation as women. I can see how that might be true, but I have no idea as to how prevalent that might be.

      Finally, people have moved away from the term transgenderED. The implication is that something happened that made us be transgender people as opposed to something that is inherent. In parallel, we don’t say lesbianED, for example…

      Also, one can be transgender without the experience of gender dysphoria (the anxiety and discomfort resulting from a mismatch between sexual assignment at birth and perceived gender). This can be true for non-binary and intersex people, for example. Anyway, the concept of being transgender is broader than only being born in the wrong body…

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    • #90301
      Kara Sumtymes
      Participant

      FREE

      Even tho, I am Kara when I feel like I want to be,Kara ,, I still have my desires to be with a real GG Woman &,,,, I also have some desire some-what? to,,,, want to have the attention while (being)-Kara /dressed up from a man, but,,, only to a certain amount like,,, holding of hands &,,, just a friendship 

    • #90298
      Michelle Larsen
      Participant

      SILVER

      Linda, I am in the same boat as you. So what’s a girl to do…. Someday, maybe, I’ll meet the man that can get over his own concerns as to how he sees me…. Until then, it’s just one day at a time. Hugs, Michelle

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    • #90291
      Hannah
      Participant

      FREE

      No interest, sexually in anyone of any gender – but I suspect my lifestyle has trained me that way over the years. 

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