Hello all

[Mbee]

I’m a 52yo male who has been married for 23 years.  I just came out to my wife about my liking of trans woman and woman’s clothing. Things are going good right now.

[Jasmine]

Hello Mbee,

Welcome to TGH. Careful of the liking Trans Woman on TGH, we are sisters remember that. So what can we do to help you on your journey?

[Mbee]

Thank you. I dont know right know it’s all new right now. I just came out to my wife over the last couple of weeks. We are taking the journey one day at a time.

[Jasmine]

thats cool, just keep thing PG on site

[Anonymous]

Welcome to TGH hope you enjoy your time here. Its good that your wife is understanding and.you will be happy wearing girlie clothes

[DeeAnn Hopings]

MBee:

Glad that you found us. I hope that being here will be helpful to you.

As you are in the process of just beginning to come to grips with your gender identity, many here have found that working with a therapist is very helpful. But, one thing is important: every therapist is not necessarily well versed in gender issues so you would need to find someone who is.

One of the big issues in the community is isolation. This can happen for a variety of reasons. People can be afraid to venture out because they risk being seen by others that they know. They may be afraid of how they might be treated in public. They may not have found a social of support group. They may live in a small town and are nowhere close to a metropolitan area. But, being in contact with other members of the trans community reminds us that they are not alone and that others are in, or have been through, similar situation. As humans, we bond around things that we like or things that we have difficulty with. Either are powerful things that bring us together.

One of the few positive things that has happened as a result of the pandemic is that many LGBT centers around the country have started doing online social and support groups. This skirts many issues around scheduling, distance and logistics. I see that you live in Georgia, but you didn’t say which area. I suggest that you do a search for either transgender or LGBT resources in your area.

I encourage you to complete your Profile page. The members here are spread out all across the world. As such, it is unlikely that many of us will even meet more than a handful of other members, if that many. The information on the page can fill in some blanks and provide some insight as to what is happening for us. Your page will always be readily available and can be updated at any time.

You can search for other members in you area by clicking on Social in the menu and then Member Directory.

Let us know how things are going for you!

[𝕋𝕖𝕣𝕣𝕚 𝔸𝕟𝕟𝕖🌸]

Hello Mbee,

Welcome to our TransGender Heaven (TGH) site: A Transgender Support Site. We are a wonderful, accepting, loving, helpful community where you can be safe and be yourself.

You can read about the knowledge and experiances of others on a similar path by reading articles and in the forums and chatting in chat rooms.
My hope is that you will become comfortable here and make many new friends.
Glad you are here. Looking forward to seeing you on the site.
Terri Anne, Ambassador

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[Dana Munson]

Hi, Mbee (my, an unusual name!).  Welcome!

As others have said, this place is not a dating site and any openly sexual commentary is really not in place here. That said . . . what DeeAnn wrote about the benefits of therapy are spot on. If, as it sounds, you are just now waking up to your “feminine side,” it may be that you need to clearly resolve whether you indeed fall into the “transgender” slot or are instead a crossdresser (that is, someone whose interest is in feminine clothing and occasionally dressing up, as opposed to actually wanting to become female).  A good therapist – one practiced in dealing with gender issues (critical!!!!) – can help you resolve that and a host of associated issues. It may cost some $$$$, but it can payoff big-time in avoided stress and anxiety.

Also, as has been said, this place is here to answer questions, so feel free to ping away.  This place has a lot of members, so there’s probably nothing in your situation which somebody here hasn’t already gone through.

Again. welcome!

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